The Ultimate Guide on What to Wear

While you may anticipate that the majority of wedding invitations call for formal or black-tie attire, some couples are putting a twist on the tried-and-true dress codes, opting instead to have their loved ones don more laid-back styles. Whether they’re hosting a beachside celebration, an intimate ceremony in their backyard, or a post-nuptial party following a spontaneous elopement, they may ask you to wear casual wedding attire for the occasion. Such a request reflects the nature of the festivities. Instead of having you rent a tuxedo or finding a floor-length gown that will allow you to hit the dance floor, a fête of this style ensures that you’ll be able to stay comfortable over the course of the day.

However, even though the invitation may call for casual wedding attire, know that there are still some rules to follow when selecting an ensemble for such an event. “Always remember that ‘casual attire’ doesn’t mean careless,” says Corinne Pierre-Louis, a bridal stylist. “You should look put-together and intentional, just without the formality of black-tie or cocktail dress codes.”

Stuck on what to wear when an invitation asks for casual wedding attire? Below, the experts break down what to consider when dressing for such an occasion—and provide recommendations on what to purchase (or search for in the back of your closet!). Read on for everything you need to know.

What Is Casual Wedding Attire? 

When an event calls for casual attire, it’s time to put away the gowns and tuxedos. Instead, when selecting an ensemble for such an occasion, opt for something that’s comfortable and easy to move in. “It’s not formal, [and] you can be comfortable, but you still want to look like you put effort in,” says Kennedy Bingham, a bridal stylist. “For women, this could be a nice pair of slacks with a blouse, an elevated jumpsuit, or a day dress. For men, I’d wear a smart shirt and some slacks with an elevated sneaker or boot.”

While you may be tempted to embrace an extremely laid-back look, know that there are certain pieces that are always off limits. “Even at a casual wedding, there are still boundaries,” Pierre-Louis says. “Jeans, flip-flops, and athletic sneakers should always be avoided. And unless the couple has explicitly stated otherwise, swimwear or anything you’d wear to a pool party is inappropriate, no matter how laid-back the vibe.”

Casual Wedding Attire: What Women Should Wear

If you’re a woman trying to find the perfect outfit for a celebration that calls for casual wedding attire, turn to comfortable ensembles that are both laid-back and stylist. “Think easygoing but chic: An unfussy midi or maxi dress (seasonally appropriate), a tailored jumpsuit, or a blouse paired with slacks or a skirt work well,” Pierre-Louis says. “Footwear should be comfortable yet elevated, such as flat sandals, wedges, ballet flats, or minimal heels. Avoid anything overly embellished or flashy.” When it comes to accessories, she recommends opting for simple jewelry and a pared-back clutch or handbag. 

Casual Wedding Attire: What Men Should Wear

Men can forgo the suit when it comes to a casual affair. However, much of what you choose to don will need to fit with the location of the celebration. “Aim for a smart, relaxed outfit,” Pierre-Louis says. “A button-down shirt with chinos or slacks is a reliable choice (be sure to skip the tie and jacket). Depending on the season and setting, a polo shirt or even tailored shorts may be appropriate. Boat shoes, loafers, dress sneakers, or clean sandals are all acceptable.”

Bingham adds that a nice pair of jeans may be okay when it comes to this dress code, as long it works with the theme, location, and style of the event. “This may be controversial, but I fully believe jeans can be worn to special events,” she says. “I distinctly remember my dad attending events in a nice shirt, crisp denim, with a structured cowboy boot and looking more put together than some of the men in suits. In my opinion, too casual means too sloppy. I wouldn’t wear sweatpants or not bother to do my hair.” Ultimately, prioritize appearing stylish, comfortable, and intentional with your look.